Its going to be a good week, good year, and good life!
So the year of 2013 was full of many ups and downs and a lot of difficult experiences. A year ago, I would have wished that it all could go away, that I didn't have to deal with any of it. However, today, I can honestly say I would not change a single thing! I am who I am today because of the things I have been through in my past. Each event, no matter how good or bad it was, has helped to mold me into the individual I now am. Do I regret things I have done, who doesn't? But I don't dwell on them. I use each as a learning experience and grow from them.
I am married to a man that I never thought I would marry. We met at Bible college in Fresno, and while circumstances weren't the greatest, we became really good friends and eventually dated. He is my best friend now and makes me life complete. Now, I'm not going to sit here and say that it has been a cake walk surrounded by rose gardens and fairies, because in all honesty, it has been nothing but the opposite of that! We have gone through some rough times; from the typical couple issues, to some deeper, more serious issues. Through it all, one thing has remained intact, and that was and still is our love for one another. We recognize that each individual in life has flaws, little imperfections, and struggles that combine to make them the person that they are. While everyone has these flaws, love helps you to over look these flaws and see them as a part of the person. Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of the person, you begin to see the positives, like the way his eyes light up when he truly smiles, or the way he holds you like he doesn't want to let go. When you can see the imperfections as nothing more than a part to the whole, that is when you can truly see the person for as they are.
I am currently on a journey to find a better me. Not just health wise, but spiritually, emotionally, mentally, career wise, and family wise. I am looking forward to this year as I am expecting a lot of changes to occur. Have a great day!
I am married to a man that I never thought I would marry. We met at Bible college in Fresno, and while circumstances weren't the greatest, we became really good friends and eventually dated. He is my best friend now and makes me life complete. Now, I'm not going to sit here and say that it has been a cake walk surrounded by rose gardens and fairies, because in all honesty, it has been nothing but the opposite of that! We have gone through some rough times; from the typical couple issues, to some deeper, more serious issues. Through it all, one thing has remained intact, and that was and still is our love for one another. We recognize that each individual in life has flaws, little imperfections, and struggles that combine to make them the person that they are. While everyone has these flaws, love helps you to over look these flaws and see them as a part of the person. Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of the person, you begin to see the positives, like the way his eyes light up when he truly smiles, or the way he holds you like he doesn't want to let go. When you can see the imperfections as nothing more than a part to the whole, that is when you can truly see the person for as they are.
I am currently on a journey to find a better me. Not just health wise, but spiritually, emotionally, mentally, career wise, and family wise. I am looking forward to this year as I am expecting a lot of changes to occur. Have a great day!
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